Bala ga' lili: communicating, relating and co-creating balance through relationships of reciprocity

Intercultural communication at Bawaka often brings LATIN SMALL LETTER ENGapaki, non-Indigenous visitors, into a series of new relationships - with YolLATIN SMALL LETTER ENGu people, with each other, with place, and with themselves. From a Bawaka YolLATIN SMALL LETTER ENGu ontology, this is part of bala ga' lili, giving and taking, co-creating balance through relationships of reciprocity and responsibility. This paper is a collaboratively written piece by YolLATIN SMALL LETTER ENGu hosts and non-YolLATIN SMALL LETTER ENGu academics as part of Bawaka Country and reflects our own efforts at embodying bala ga' lili. It considers how visitors to Bawaka come into relationship with themselves, their hosts, each other, and place. It discusses the opportunities and limitations of these relationships and emphasizes the importance of multi-directional, embodied, more-than-human communication. Through an analysis of a student fieldtrip and discussion of YolLATIN SMALL LETTER ENGu hosts' expectations and aspirations, it argues that with communication and the formation of new relationships comes responsibilities to translate new understandings across time and place, assisting with the important, although only ever incompletely possible, work of breaking unjust systems and contributing to more just and sustainable processes and outcomes.